Is addiction an environmental deficiency disease?
Richard Blake Richard Blake

Is addiction an environmental deficiency disease?

Winnicott saw how mental health problems could arise in later life if the environment of the infant were not ‘good enough’. This essay will look at what this is and the trauma that arises from ‘not good enough mothering.’ Winnicott (cited in Mitchell and Black, 1995, p125) used the phrase “environmental deficiency disease” to make the point that mental health problems like psychosis, depression or addiction were the symptoms of a disease that lies within. The term, ‘good enough mothering’, is what Winnicott believed was required to nurture a child into an emotionally healthy adult.  The mental and physiological impacts of trauma often lead to loneliness. Loneliness can lead to addiction. This is one path that leads from traumatised infant to addicted adult trying to survive in an isolating environment. The parallels between Winnicott’s ‘environmental mother’ will be compared with the parallels of the adult environment that Johan Hari believes is not serving us anymore. Of course, there are many ways that a child can become addicted in adulthood, but these steps seem to be the most common in our society:

Not good enough mother > trauma > incapacity to be alone or to connect > depression & anxiety > addiction.

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Can the body and Eugene Gendlin’s idea of the ‘felt sense’ help the psychotherapeutic process?
Richard Blake Richard Blake

Can the body and Eugene Gendlin’s idea of the ‘felt sense’ help the psychotherapeutic process?

This is an essay I wrote for my Psychotherapy studies, hence the formal style. I wanted to publish it so that people can see how common trauma is and that it is okay to say you have been traumatised. Its not something that it is only reserved for war veterans or the severely abused. We are all walking around with wounds and there is support out there for you if you want it.

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Its time for presence giving!
Richard Blake Richard Blake

Its time for presence giving!

Everyone is talking about presence these days and it's not even nearly Christmas. As mindfulness meditation becomes increasingly popular, people are starting to be introduced to the idea of presence. Mindfulness is about practising presence. I was talking to my girlfriend’s mother about this idea and she had the good sense to ask, “ but what does it actually mean to be present?” I was stumped as I tried to describe it. I kept fumbling around for the right words. Granted, she is Spanish and English is her second language, but even without this barrier, I would have failed to clearly explain it. I know what it feels like it to be present as I have practised it in meditation. But unless you have experienced it yourself, it would be like describing the colour green to a blind person.

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A Pizza Meditation
Richard Blake Richard Blake

A Pizza Meditation

Mmm pizza. Ahhhh, meditation. Is it a coincidence that the meditative sound of AUM is so similar to the pizza eating “nom nom nom”, I ask you? Definitely not! Can adding these two things together make each of them easier to digest? Can it help you with stress and anxiety? Can it even help you to lose weight? The answers are, of course, yes. And they revolve around ‘non-attachment’ and mindful eating.

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Floatopia
Richard Blake Richard Blake

Floatopia

Surely you know what floating is by now? Everyone has been doing it. From John Lennon, who credited it with weaning him off of heroin, to Wayne Rooney using it to recover from injury. Floating is mainstream now so I thought I had better give it a go.

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Headspace vs Calm - The battle for your inner peace
Richard Blake Richard Blake

Headspace vs Calm - The battle for your inner peace

You’ve seen them before, they’re everywhere….‘Top 5 best meditation apps’ and other 'best lists'. They are great but they don’t really tell you much about the products. So here we have the two heavyweights of the meditation app world. The two apps that are always in the top 5. And are the best ranked in the iTunes chart. The two apps that have had the most investment in them and require the most investment from you. If you want to take meditation seriously, you are going to chose one of these two apps.

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